Thank you very much for your kind thoughtful comments. Yes, I'm writing about "truth units" to deal with my frustration and to achieve some kind of peace and fulfillment. The only route I see to help them is to get them to read my writing when it's articulated clearly enough so that it helps them overcome the duality mindset. Or have my partner explain it to them -- she has the established relationship with them. So far, I have several "drafts" or essays on truth units on Medium, if you're curious or interested.